The best course of action with regard to any problem is to confront it and solve it immediately.

Otherwise the failure will bother you indefinately, making the solution more elusive.

I will finish my incompletes. I will graduate. I will move on, and away from her. I cannot fix her.

Hobbies do not make life meaningful:
I couldn't tell the difference between a small-mouth and a large-mouth bass.
Nor does a whitetail buck within range provide any excitement.
I like nice cars in much the same way as I enjoy fine dining, but I don't want mine to be a garish advertisement for some aftermarket parts producer, or my own vanity.
video games can be fun, just like bubble gum is fun. But after a short time, all the games seem the same and the flavor has run out.
writing isn't even much of a hobby for me. I can't maintain a consistent output, quality level, or topic. When I write like this I do very little to monitor quality control. It's how I make sure that it doesn't get too good. Then I won't be obligated to produce quality. That would be difficult on a daily, or even weekly basis. It would become like work; which by definition cannot be enjoyable.